always we heard about girls nowadays are being so materialistic..that they choose money over love. to me, both are important. well, u got an upper-hand if u're rich...but it makes u more esteemed if u're rich+sweet+loving *nice package to win over a girl's heart ;)*
when i was looking for a bf 5 years ago, i did look for a guy with a good future. well, who doesnt?? at that moment i was in a local U, so i was surrounded by college-goers of course. luckily, i fell for someone who was pursuing his studies at that time and to me, when someone is showing how much he love the knowledge, probably he know what he's going to do with his life. InsyaAllah.. as long as the effort is there, that'll be fine with me. doesn't mean that he has to be a doctor or a successful businessman indeed but at least he has a promising career. something that can make me feel secure. trust me, when a woman got strucked by love, she don't really give a damn about his future. if he's jobless, she tends to give him support, help him and find a job for him because she just want to be with her loved one. *love is really blind huh?* but this financial issues is a suicide for your marriage if it still persists.. think about it lelaki2 dan perempuan2 semua...
for men who thinks that we women are materialistic just because we want u to try harder and earn more money, read this :
" One of the main reasons why women push their bfs or hubs to strive for more is fear. we fear that if we don't try our best to make our partner see how importabt ambition and drive is, there is a high possibility our respect for them will diminish over time"
u might be asking WHY?
simply because...women work as hard, if not, harder than men, that makes them more or less equal. and ever wonder why there are so many girls out there choose not to commit to a marriage? well, let's put it this way, if u can afford a car and are able to drive, maintain and fix the car, why would you hire a mechanic?
:)
when i was looking for a bf 5 years ago, i did look for a guy with a good future. well, who doesnt?? at that moment i was in a local U, so i was surrounded by college-goers of course. luckily, i fell for someone who was pursuing his studies at that time and to me, when someone is showing how much he love the knowledge, probably he know what he's going to do with his life. InsyaAllah.. as long as the effort is there, that'll be fine with me. doesn't mean that he has to be a doctor or a successful businessman indeed but at least he has a promising career. something that can make me feel secure. trust me, when a woman got strucked by love, she don't really give a damn about his future. if he's jobless, she tends to give him support, help him and find a job for him because she just want to be with her loved one. *love is really blind huh?* but this financial issues is a suicide for your marriage if it still persists.. think about it lelaki2 dan perempuan2 semua...
for men who thinks that we women are materialistic just because we want u to try harder and earn more money, read this :
" One of the main reasons why women push their bfs or hubs to strive for more is fear. we fear that if we don't try our best to make our partner see how importabt ambition and drive is, there is a high possibility our respect for them will diminish over time"
u might be asking WHY?
simply because...women work as hard, if not, harder than men, that makes them more or less equal. and ever wonder why there are so many girls out there choose not to commit to a marriage? well, let's put it this way, if u can afford a car and are able to drive, maintain and fix the car, why would you hire a mechanic?
:)
